Interview with Charles, m ray, Leon, Jean, Accountant, Hot attorney, Gene, Lil Will and Cam
JM: Is there anything else you would want a friend or family member to know if they have a loved one going to jail? Charles: Good luck, its not easy for most. You will survive
if you want too, Its very important to keep up
support from friends and family on the outside. m ray: it f*in sucks Leon: Having money on your account is very helpful. Visits would be nice
also. Jean: The first advice I would give them - you do not want to be there
without any money.
I would say you need - well, commissary is high. A bag of
M&Ms is a dollar. You would want enough money to make
yourself a good little trip to Wal-Mart every week for munchies. I
would say $25-30. You don't want your money not to get on
your books or next time, you're broke. The cool thing is now
that Western Union has that QuickCollect. People can put money
on your books from anywhere. They actually literally have a
section in the Western Union that asks if you need to send
money to an inmate. It doesn't calculate until they calculate the
books. If a girl doesn't push a button at 5pm, tomorrow
morning, you might not have shit.
Accountant: Stay Strong and excersice your faith. And if
there are warrants out for your arrest, find out,
hire an attorney and take care of this. I was
once told that it becomes reality for you once
you hear that cell door slam, and that's the
honest to God truth. I am an accountant, and I
drive an Audi A6, live in a very nice area, and I
make good money.........once you go to jail, they
treat you all the same-with very little respect.
Again if you can help it, stay OUT. Hot attorney: Bail them out ASAP. Gene: Pray the elevator cables don't break when they
herd you to court. I've seen the elevator sink
as far as 18 inches with the over loading they
do with those "chain gangs". They pack you in
there like sardines. Lil Will: Most guards dont mess with you but theres a few
that do. It used to piss me off but as i get
older i see there are those wherever you go. You
have more problem wiht guards that just dont give
a damn than messing with you. But they will beat
some ass if you aggravate them. Its not like TDC
where they have to go get a camera first. Cam: Mail is always a calming part of an inmates
time..if they have nothing else, at least they
have that..being out of touch with the outside
world can really take a toll on someones life and
attitude while incarcerated..its as if you feel
that no one cares about you and all have moved
on without you..Just a little hello on a piece
of paper enclosed in an envelope with a stamp
and at the front of the envelope is your name on
it and everyone hears your name being called
because you have mail...If only you knew..Its a
sign that someone out there still has you on
their mind and not only you know it but everyone
in your tank knows it too..Thats a great thing
for someone to get when they are at a serious
turning point in their life..After all, Jail
means record, record means file and file means
that it is always there for someone to access.
The only difference is that this file
is a file of wrong doing, and when you try to
build a future that file can alwys be accessed
and could be used to shatter your dreams,
expectations, goals and most importand your way
of life..My life will never be the same due to
my stupid actions..but i can say this..I have no
one to blame but myself..
JM: Is there anything else you would recommend to a future inmate? Charles: if possible, plan things out before hand, turn
urself in, do things on your schedule, not theres. m ray: do what u have to do just dont act like a dumbass Leon: Stay clean and don't get arrested to start with is my best advice.
As
they say don't do the crime if you can't do the time. Try to get
assigned as a trustee they are treated better. Don't give the
officers
problems they just work there but they can make your stay
harder
than it has to be.
Jean: Jail does suck. It's the worst thing you'll ever go through in your
life. So take money with you and try to get some books in there
- you can receive books, but it has to be packaged by the store,
and only by the store. They'll open it in the mailroom before you
ever get it. When I was there, when I got busted, I didn't have
my glasses with me in my purse, and it took four months to get
my glasses, and they had them the whole time, they just didn't
bring them to me. My boyfriend had to go through some awful
procedure just to get my glasses there. Now, what the hell are
you going to smuggle in with a pair of glasses? The other thing
is you get mail once a day, which is cool. That's the other bit of
advice. You have to get mail. If you don't get mail in the
daytime, it's like a slug in your heart. You need pictures. You
can have pictures, but they're going to open them. You don't
want anything risque or anything. They'll give you what they
think you can have. You need pictures, you need money, you
need pictures from home, and you need a Bible. People can send
you bibles. They will pass out bibles, but by the time they get to
your floor, they're gone. And if you do the church thing, you
might ask the chaplain. They have all different kinds of church.
They have Jehovah's Witness on Wednesday night; they have
Catholic Mass on Saturday night. They have church on Sunday.
Most girls don't go to church on Sunday because that's visitor's
day. You don't want to miss your visitor. They won't pull you out
of anything. If you're not in your room, you're just not there.
They're not going to run around looking for you. If I had all the
money in the world, I'd have a billboard that says "Shoulda,
Coulda, Woulda". I'd have an 800 number telling people what not
to do. Hot attorney: Hold your stuff! This is a very bad place. Gene: What the hell is a "future inmate"?. Any person
who gets a traffic ticket and forgets to pay it
becomes one. A jail is the wrong place
for "crimes" like this. Jails should be used
for the single purpose of protecting the public
from physical harm by an unruly person. They
are primarily used for the generation of revenue
for the cities. Money, or the lack thereof, is
the main difference between an inmate and a free
person. Who said there is no such thing as a
debtor's prison? Lil Will: turn yourself in on your own time, after you get
paid and get laid. Cam: Always try to have money on you books..You will
need it..The food is horrible.. When you see
trouble stirring up, just turn your head ans
walk the other way..never try to be a witness
to anything cause if that person gets into
trouble they will always assume its the new gut
that ratted them out..And remember the
title "RAT" is something that will stay with you
even after you get out for jail..Its a small
world when your free but its even smaller when
your locked up..